Perspectives from bullied people and how to deal with it

The bullied people say "the bullying people is bad, not our blame". You could say that. But the feature that people who are bullied have in common is mostly a lack of confidence or reluctance to claim. They share the same characteristic of acting passively. So when you are picked on by someone, it's the proof that you can't resist against him with words.

Ironically, bullied people misunderstand the reason why they are provided with hardships. They only think their bodies are quite small, so they feel they can't win others in fight. However, it is almost always the truth that giving back any strong word can stop people from considering you a weak person without fighting. If you make it a rule, it could be a prevention of bullying from those people.